We’re Watching You, NYPD: A Petition To Drop the Charges Against Cecily McMillan

Sign the petition to drop the charges against Cecily McMillan.

The exposition: Cecily McMillan is an activist who was involved in Occupy Wall Street, where she promoted nonviolent forms of protest. However, the night she was arrested, she was in Zucotti Park with plans to meet up with friends simply to go out for St. Patrick’s Day. When officers announced they were clearing the park, she headed for the exit — until her breast was suddenly grabbed from behind. She startled and in a visceral reaction, flailed out in alarm. Her elbow hit her assailant, who turned out to be a police officer, Grantley Bovell. Cecily was arrested for assaulting a police officer, was beaten, suffered a seizure while police officers silently looked on, and was denied constitutional rights in custody. Officer Bovell is charged with nothing. Cecily is charged with a felony and faces up to seven years in prison. 

The trial so far has been an absolute circus. The judge seems annoyed that the defense is taking up his time with crazy things like evidence and providing context, and so has consistently ruled in favor of the prosecution. So far, Cecily has been called a “fraud” for her nonviolent ideology, it has been implied that the bruises on her breast were self-inflicted, the lawyers have been given a gag order, important video footage has been banned from evidence, Bovell’s prior misconduct has been swept under the rug, and Cecily’s been accused of faking her seizure. Desperate to cover up the horrific brutality of the NYPD, the prosecution seem determined to change the conversation — but this young woman is caught in the crossfire.

So what do we do? Here’s a place to start:

Sign the petition to drop the charges against Cecily McMillan.

I know, I know. A petition? Really? However, this particular one’s in a position to have an impact. It was mentioned today in court, which means that it has reached the people who need to read it and they are seeing how many people sign it. Whether they like it or not, they’re finding out just how many people know that there’s a serious injustice being done here, and it will not go unnoticed.

The #MyNYPD Twitter campaign was a powerful reaction to the epidemic of police brutality in New York City, but let’s make it clear that it wasn’t a fluke. People are watching.

For more information about Cecily McMillan’s trial, read the story here, visit justiceforcecily.com or search #Justice4Cecily on Twitter.

Sign the petition to drop the charges against Cecily McMillan.




Demons

On the F train today, I listened to a middle-aged man in a tan raincoat talk for twenty minutes, because I thought eventually he would have to run out of opinions.  His touched his carefully trimmed mustache a lot as he talked.  He looked like someone’s dad.  He had opinions about the eternal soul, and he had opinions about who ought to be accepted as one’s savior, and he had opinions about sin.  He had opinions about the sinfulness of both the world in general and this subway car full of quiet people reading in particular.

These opinions weren’t very unusual.  Lots of people have them, and tell them to you while calling you “mybrothersandsisters”.  I was educated by some of them.  I don’t mind when people tell you, as this man did, that they love and respect all of God’s creation.  But when they tell you this fact between examples of what or whom among God’s creation they don’t think deserve it, that’s another thing.

This man got specific very quickly, as he started to discuss his opinions of what God’s opinions are.  For example, about homosexuality.  And “dark-skinned blacks, not my light-skinned black brothersandsisters” (the man was black, if you’re curious, but I’m not sure if that makes it less of a bad thing to say or worse.  Or the same).  And Jewish people.  He had a lot of opinions about Jewish people and why their history of persecution was what they deserved.  An old man dressed in the Orthodox tradition, sitting silently with his head bowed, swallowed, but did not look up.  Interesting how the guy who was supposed to be such a menace to the soul of our city was not the one currently bothering everyone.  I thought about saying something to the man with the opinions, in defense of this man who was bothering no one, but I thought that if the man with the opinions felt such a deep entitlement to press them upon a captive audience of unexcited strangers, no mere opinion of mine could mean much in the face of that certainty.  And would there be something appropriative and boorish about calling him out for talking about black people, Jewish people, and gay people, when I was none of those things and there were black people and the Orthodox man sitting in the car who had chosen not to engage him?  I hated that no one stood up to him, and I felt ashamed that I lacked the certainty to do it myself.  I didn’t like the idea that everyone in the car, by staying silent, was agreeing on some level that this speech was acceptable.     

But then he started talking about women.  And I could do more than have just an opinion about women.  I was qualified to serve as an example, because I am one.  

This man talked about women who talk too much.  Women who think they have a right to voice an opinion because they forget that they were created second. Women who forget that every month their blood is a (kind of passive-aggressive) punishment from God for the sin inherent in being descendants of Eve.  

Last month, I said, “I hope having a kid one day is worth all this.  I’ve spent a fortune on Tylenol.”  La-dee-da, the things we do for creation.  Oh, creation!  You love that, right?

He said that women in this city were foul and should know that they are sinful and base and DISGUSTING.  

A lot of women I know spend a lot of time worrying that someone will call them disgusting sometime.  Too many.  I know I do.  But not by this guy.  If I’m disgusting, it’s not because this guy says so.  Not this smug man who thinks he’s entitled to tell everyone what God thinks of them.  I think I am entitled to nothing, except perhaps the right not to be subject to the entitlement of others.  So I said aloud, definitely a little more loudly than I intended:

"So, love and respect for God’s creation, sure, but  … not women?”

He looked at me like a frog had just spoken to him.  I saw the whites of his eyes.  He literally trembled with rage.  I thought maybe I had made a mistake.  ”I love and respect all of God’s creation.  I just CALL OUT THE DEMONS WHEN I SEE THEM.”

The moment he said the word “demons”, any nagging fear or thoughts that he was too unhinged for this to mean anything fell by the wayside, because it was such a dramatic and medieval idea I couldn’t believe he was saying it seriously.  Plus I was right in the middle of rereading Good Omens. “So … women … are demons, then?”

"Yes." He said, proudly.  

"And therefore God created … demons?"

"Well -"

“Well, Lucifer was a fallen angel, I know, so I see where you’re coming from.  Although, in terms of your theology, if God cre-“

"-IN THE BLINK OF AN EYE THE POWER OF GOD CAN CAUSE THIS WORLD TO VANISH."  

He had turned away so that he could keep talking without looking at me.  He wasn’t so sure of himself anymore.  

"Okay, then." I was glad that at least he hadn’t gone through his day spewing vitriol without anyone telling him it wasn’t okay. I felt a flash of victory, but I wished the train doors had opened at a station just then so I could make an exit.  Instead I just stayed sitting there for a few minutes as he went on and on and on.  I deflated  slightly as I noticed, with a twinge of surprise and maybe hurt, that no one else in the car met my eye either. Maybe I had been too self-righteous. 

When we pulled into the station, I briskly took my two heavy bags and walked out the doors, then back in the doors of the next car.  Maybe I should have gotten off the train.  Never in my life had I ever wished more that I had a tail.  A demon tail.


Your job isn’t to be attractive

Conversations about women in comedy tend to ruffle my feathers pretty easily, but I found this post in the Atlantic about Phyllis Diller and Tina Fey, entitled “Why Do So Many Pretty Female Comedians Pretend They’re Ugly?”, especially egregious. 

http://www.theatlantic.com/entertainment/archive/2012/08/why-do-so-many-pretty-female-comedians-pretend-theyre-ugly/261510/

Fey, similarly, is married with two daughters; she’s the face of Garnier hair color treatments, and lives in a posh apartment on Manhattan’s Upper West Side. But many of the running gags on 30 Rock revolve around Liz Lemon’s sloppiness and chronic singledom. So why are we laughing at Diller and Fey for their shabbiness, their sofa dependence, and their chronically sad love lives? Why do these well-loved, impressively accomplished women invent incompetence to fuel their comedy?

Let me preface this by saying that Tina Fey is my heroine (and by “heroine” I mean lady hero.  I don’t want to inject her and listen to jazz).  I happen to think that she’s a super good-looking lady … but that is not WHY I care about her at all. Her level of attractiveness is completely irrelevant to what she is trying to do.  

Tina Fey’s job isn’t to be attractive.

Tina Fey’s job is to write awesome things and play a character who makes us laugh and also feel things.  If she happens to also be considered attractive, that’s nice.  But what she does isn’t about her looks.  It is about her brain!  For most famous women, their jobs are to be hot.  Isn’t it nice that for this one famous lady, her looks aren’t her defining characteristic?

I think the thing that people often misinterpret about Fey’s character Liz Lemon is that she is somehow a symbol of failed womanhood because of her “shabbiness … sofa dependence, and … chronically sad love li[fe]”.  Guys, I have news for you:  for the vast majority of women, THAT’S REGULAR WOMANHOOD.  Other female television characters who are gorgeous and great role models who effortlessly “have it all” AREN’T LIKE US.  And they aren’t funny!  The thing being overlooked is that well-adjusted, successful characters make terrible comedic protagonists.  If Jerry Seinfeld was a sensitive fellow, if Woody Allen was dapper and laid-back, they would be completely uninteresting.  Popular culture tells us that the only way women are allowed to fail is to fail attractively, with rom-com clumsiness and adorable misunderstandings.  Liz Lemon’s failures are unattractive, like those of a real person (if perhaps more fantastical).  But the beautiful thing about her is that despite her failings, the other characters on the show care about her and believe in her, so there’s always hope for her.   That, I think is a much healthier message than to show us a paragon of unattainable perfection.

In conclusion, SUCK IT, NERDS!  Lemon out.